First Time Confessions
First Time is exactly what it sounds like: confessions about trying something in this space for the very first time. A first threesome, a first time being tied up, a first time admitting a kink out loud to another person, or losing your virginity itself. The category exists because "firsts" hit differently than something familiar: there's more fear, more second-guessing, and usually a much bigger gap between what someone expected and what actually happened.
If you're new to any of this yourself, this is a good category to read before you post your own confession. Seeing how nervous everyone else was helps. It's also one of the few categories here where the emotional buildup (the decision to finally do it, the moment right before) often matters as much to readers as what happened once it started.
Frequently asked questions
Does "first time" mean the confession has to be about losing your virginity?
No, that's one common example, but most First Time posts are about a first for something much more specific: a first kink admitted out loud, a first time with a stranger, a first time trying group sex. The "first" can be about anything, not just virginity.
Can I post about a first time that went badly?
Yes, and those confessions are often the most useful ones for other readers. A first time that didn't go as planned is exactly the kind of thing worth getting off your chest here.
What if my "first time" confession also fits another category, like BDSM?
Pick whichever category feels like the closer fit. There's natural overlap, and readers browsing First Time are usually just as interested in a first scene as a first hookup.