Trying My Hand at Some CNC Roleplay with the Neighbor

So I recently got out of a long-term relationship after my ex just couldn't handle being a military spouse anymore. Figured it was time to start living for myself instead of trying to keep up with someone else's demands. Last week, the new neighbor moved in next door, let’s call him Mark, he's 28, and we’ve been talking about roleplay scenarios over drinks and some light flirting. We decided to try out a CNC setup that he had in mind involving me being his commanding officer and him having to follow orders without question. It was surprisingly hot and intense. I wore my old military uniform, which Mark said made me look incredibly authoritative. He started by kneeling before me as if awaiting punishment for some imaginary rule he broke. His hands were cuffed behind his back with soft leather ties that left marks on his wrists, we made sure to use safe words and check in frequently. I had him stand up, then I unbuttoned his pants slowly, pulling them down along with his underwear until they pooled around his ankles. He was hard already from the build-up, pre-cum glistening at the tip of his cock. Without warning, I guided his dick to my mouth and took him in deep, feeling the warmth as it slid past my lips and into my throat. Mark groaned loudly, bucking his hips forward a bit before I signaled for him to stay still. After swallowing him down repeatedly, I backed away and had him lie on the bed facing up, then straddled him with one leg on either side of his waist, my pussy resting against his abs as he looked up at me. Slowly sliding down onto his hard shaft was a dreamy mix of sensation and power over him. Each thrust inside me made him growl in submission. Does anyone have any experience or thoughts about CNC play? How common is it to incorporate roleplay aspects into it like this?