After the Divorce Settlement

Anonymous Feral Heathen #665 · General

Since the divorce papers were signed last month, I've felt a mix of relief and confusion. My ex and I had been married for eight years before things fell apart due to a growing distance between us that neither of us could bridge anymore. Now, with everything settled legally and financially, there's an emptiness in my heart that's hard to shake off. What has surprised me the most is this sudden urge to connect again, not romantically but physically. I've found myself fantasizing about different scenarios involving others, things that would have seemed taboo before but now seem like a way to process what I'm feeling. Last night, for instance, I ended up with someone from work, purely as a release. It was consensual and safe, yet left me questioning if this is normal after such a big life change. Am I just seeking comfort in an unhealthy place? Or is it okay to explore these feelings now that the marriage is over? Any advice or personal experience you'd like to share?