I Kinked Out With My New Partner on the First Date, No Strings Attached!

So, I recently got divorced after seven years of marriage. It was hard but necessary. I met this amazing person through a friend and we started talking. They're smart, funny, and so full of life, totally different from my ex in every way that counts for me now. Anyway, one night, I suggested we meet up to talk more over dinner. When they got here, we chatted about everything except the big L word or any serious stuff. We were both relaxed and comfortable. Then out of nowhere, I blurted out something along the lines of, 'If you ever wanted to explore kinks with no strings attached, now's your chance.' It felt risky but also so right. They looked at me for a moment like they didn't know what to think, and then said okay. We finished dinner, kept everything light. But when we were done eating, I invited them back to my place without even knowing if they'd agree or not. I mean, this was only the first date! And yet here we are. We spent an hour making out in the kitchen until it felt like every inch of me was tingling with desire. Then we went into my bedroom and everything changed. We both started to undress each other slowly, like savoring a rare delicacy. My new partner was incredibly gentle but also firm as their hands roamed over my body. It was intense. Every touch felt electric. Once I was naked, they paused for a moment, like maybe catching their breath or just taking me in, and then it happened: we kissed again and I guided them to the bed, lying down next to each other. The way they moved against me, pressing into every sensitive spot... It's hard to describe how good it felt. We explored different positions that both made my heart race and my body throb with pleasure. In one particularly steamy session, their hips were grinding into mine in a slow, relentless rhythm until I couldn't take it anymore, screaming out as wave after wave of orgasm hit me hard. When we finally finished for the night (there was no sleep happening), we both felt a bit dazed but also happy. There's something freeing about not having any expectations hanging over you when everything else is brand new. I've been married before, this kind of openness and mutual consent feels so different, refreshing even. So, my question is: Is it normal to have such intense physical intimacy on the first date? Should we proceed with more casual dates or dive straight into a serious relationship? What do you think about this approach?