The Time I Played The Asshole

So here's something funny...or maybe not so funny depending on how you look at it. I'm in my 40s and have been with John for years now. We were both feeling a bit adventurous, but I wanted to try something he wasn't comfortable with yet. So one night we decided to role-play this really intense scene from a book that got me going. But when the time came, I was the only one into it. I think John felt pressured or weirded out, and our session turned kind of awkward. We laughed about it in the end but man, did I feel like an ass for pushing him so hard. Sometimes you just need to respect each other's limits more than your own fantasies.