It's Just Part of Our Routine Now

My wife and I have been married for ten years now. We've always had an open relationship when it comes to sex. Lately, though, we’ve started something new that might seem odd to others but feels natural to us. It’s not the specifics I want to get into, just acknowledging there's this dynamic between us where she takes on a more dominant role sometimes and leads me through some surprising scenarios. She plans everything meticulously in advance, from location choices to what we’ll do exactly. It's all consensual of course, but it took some getting used to for me at first. Now I’m much more comfortable with it; it’s just part of our routine now, like picking out dinner or deciding which movie to watch together on a Friday night.