ex got weird after night shift thing

so i was working nights for like 6 months and it got really boring and i started messaging this girl from work cus we had simma same shifts n stuff. at first it was just small talk but then one night i told her abt some fetish stuff that i like to do, nothing too crazy but u know details and all that. she kinda freaked out and was like omg im not sure about this anymore but also kinda liked hearing it so we kind of kept talking about it. then after a while she said she wanted to try something, so one night when we both werent working we met up at her place and did some roleplay stuff that i had talked abt before. again nothing illegal or anything just fun adult stuff, but afterwards she got super weird and distant and told me she needed space. i was like wha? what did u expect would happen if u asked for this kinda thing from someone ur dating? now shes ghosting me n im over it cus i know that shit is real life stuff too and if someone cant handle hearing abt something before they do it then maybe they just dont want to be with you anyway. so yeah, i guess im the asshole for being open but also i stand by everything that happened cuz its all consensual adult shit.