at work kink slip up

so my partner and i have been dating for about a year now and we've got a pretty solid set of kinks between us. but there's one thing i really want to try that he isn't comfortable with yet, bondage stuff. i know it sounds weird but sometimes just having someone in charge makes me feel so much more turned on. i can usually keep my head in the game and leave this stuff at home but last week something happened at work that might have been a bit too real. i work retail and we got this new manager, really strict and demanding. everyone’s like “she’s going to be tough” and for me it just made everything feel super intense, ya know? one day i was stocking shelves and she walks up behind me with this stern look, asking what’s taking so long even though i’m barely late and totally on task. i felt a bit of that submission vibe hit me pretty hard in the moment, like wanting to please her just because she was standing there looking down at me. we finished up talking and she walked away but my mind kept spinning with this idea of letting someone else be in charge, having them tell me exactly what to do. i know it’s a bit weird given we’re at work and all that but honestly after that day i couldn’t stop thinking about how i wanted her to tie me up or something when she was on top of me telling me what my job was. i didn't act on these thoughts of course, not in the least - but just being there around her made it hard to ignore those feelings, and they popped into my head again that night as we were getting ready for bed. i shared them with him then too over dinner, saying how much this woman at work has me thinking about something new like that. he was confused but tried not to push too hard, and now it’s eating away at me knowing even just talking about it brought those strong feelings back.