It Was All A Big Misunderstanding?
Anonymous Unhinged Wolf #714 · BDSM & Kink
So, here's the thing. Me and this chick I've been seeing for about six months now, let’s call her Jane, we’re kind of in this weird space where we're dating casually but no one wants to take it to the next level just yet... You know how that goes. Anyway, we were both a bit drunk at her place last weekend, and she brought up this thing I’d mentioned before about exploring some light BDSM stuff... She said sure why not? So, uh, let’s say Jane took a different sort of interest than what I was going for. Long story short: I ended up the submissive without really intending to become one. It wasn’t exactly how it went down in my head, no restraints or anything, but she kind of... guided things and well... we both got into it. Afterwards, Jane tried saying it was just a plaything... but something tells me that’s not going away anytime soon. I mean, did I want to go full-on BDSM? Not really, no. But if she wants to try this again, I guess I’m not totally against the idea either. Now we’re sort of stuck with figuring out what kind of dynamic this means for us... and whether it’s something that can be fun without making things awkward every time we're together.