law school shenanigans

i got separated from my husband a couple months back and since then i've been kinda wild at law school. started seeing this older guy in his thirties, kinda like a mentor but we'd meet up at the bar or go to his place after class sometimes. he knows about me and my situation, divorcing and all that, so there's no weird boundaries stuff. also met this really hot girl around our age, she's a bit of an alpha and i kind of let her take control in bed - it was pretty intense but amazing. we did some roleplay too where she'd be like the lawyer and i'd be the client needing help, all while getting intimate. felt so dirty and good at the same time. so basically i've been having this affair with the older guy on the side and fooling around with this alpha girl friend, not sure if that makes me the asshole or just someone living their life after a marriage gone south. what do yall think? am i crossing any lines here?