recently single and exploring

so yeah i was married for about 10 years but we recently got divorced. it's been a while since i had to think about dating or hookups or whatever, so i'm kind of out of practice. met this chick online, we hit it off pretty well chatting, she seemed like an interesting person, and yeah i really liked her vibe. went over to her place one night for some drinks and small talk and then things started getting... intimate. we had a nice evening but also awkward moments where both of us were unsure how far was too far or not far enough. now we're messaging each other back and forth, trying to figure out what exactly is going on between us, if anything serious or just casual stuff. i'm not sure if im overstepping boundaries by asking for more clarity, but also dont want her to think i have no intentions. so anyway anyone have any advice? should i be pressing harder for something more concrete or giving her space? seems like she's interested but also playing it cool and keeping things light. am i just being paranoid about reading too much into casual interactions or is there actually a chance of something developing here? thanks in advance, i know im overthinking this but any insight helps