My Secret Dungeon Play

I’ve been married for 15 years now and my husband is amazing in every way. We’re very open-minded about sex, but I have this one kink that’s a bit out of the ordinary, dungeon play. It started when I was younger, sneaking around online forums to read about it. Now that I’m in my forties, it still gets me excited and sometimes, even turns me on more than regular vanilla stuff. Last weekend, we were out for drinks with friends when a new bar game caught my eye, ‘Capture the Flag’ style but with blindfolds and handcuffs instead of flags. The playful restraint and secrecy got me so turned on that I couldn’t help but bring it up in bed later that night. My husband was intrigued but didn’t want to dive too deep into dungeon play just yet, understanding how rare this is for us. I’m not trying to make him change his mind, we’re both happy with our relationship as-is. But there’s something about being restrained and taken somewhere without knowing what’s coming next that really turns me on. It feels so adventurous and naughty compared to the usual routine of our sex life, even when it’s hot. Tonight I’m planning to surprise him by adding a blindfold during one of our favorite games, maybe he’ll be more open after seeing how fun a little light dungeon play can be in the safety of home.