So My Date Thought I Was A Woman Tonight...

Hey everyone, so here's this kinda funny situation that happened tonight. So I was out on a date with this really cool chick I met online, and she said to me, “You know, you look so handsome today!” And I’m like, “Thanks, but I meant to tell you, I’m actually a trans guy.” She laughed it off and then just went all quiet... not sure if that was good or bad. We had dinner, it was great actually, her cooking is amazing! But there were these awkward moments when she’d forget my pronouns and stuff like that. It felt pretty weird at first but we kinda got into a rhythm talking about movies and politics and such. We ended up back at her place for coffee... and things got, uh, steamy? She was all over me! It started off sweet but then she pinned me against the wall, kissing hard, grabbing my ass. I mean... it’s not that I don’t like that stuff, but I wasn’t sure how to respond with someone who just found out about me being trans earlier that day. We ended up fooling around for a bit, and well... we did some other things too. Pretty intense, and yeah, I came pretty hard... So my question is: was this normal? Should I have stopped her? I don’t want to hurt her feelings but at the same time, it felt kinda weird continuing with someone who just learned about me a few hours ago. What would you guys do in that situation... ?