Bed of Roses and Thorns

I’m married to my high school sweetheart, but we’ve both been wanting to spice up our sex life. Last night, he surprised me by telling me that he wanted to play a role where I was the dominant one, which really turned him on. We started off slowly, with him blindfolded and tied up. But as soon as I got control over the situation, my inhibitions melted away. He’s such a turn-on when he’s vulnerable like this. I started kissing his neck and then down to his chest, tracing circles around each nipple before biting them gently. My hands moved further south, teasing him until he was straining against his restraints. I pulled out our favorite lubricant and coated my fingers, slipping one inside of him while caressing his balls with the other hand. It felt so exhilarating being in charge like this. He started to moan louder as I added another finger, scissoring them until he was stretched enough for what came next. I lined up at his entrance and pushed into him slowly, inch by agonizing inch. His eyes were wide with need behind the blindfold. Once I was fully inside, we stayed still for a moment, both of us savoring the intense connection before beginning to move together. With every thrust, he would beg me to go harder and faster, it was one of the hottest things ever hearing him say that. We went on like this for what felt like forever, until he came with my name on his lips. I followed close behind. As we laid there catching our breath afterward, I wondered if it’s normal for someone in a long-term relationship to have such intense fantasies and experiences? Is everyone as into roleplay and dominance/submission as we were last night? It was so liberating, but also somewhat terrifying at the same time.