Caught In The Moment With A Stranger

I recently ended a long-term relationship and have been dating casually. Nothing exclusive yet, but I've been enjoying the freedom of meeting new people and exploring different connections. Last weekend, I met this really attractive guy at a bar. We clicked instantly, we talked about everything from our favorite bands to our pet peeves. As he walked me back home after a few drinks, there was an undeniable tension between us. We arrived at my place, and before I could even think, we were kissing passionately on the doorstep. I invited him in, and we spent the next couple of hours getting to know each other intimately, it was intense and incredibly satisfying. But here’s where things got a bit complicated: after we had sex for the first time that night, he revealed that he has a girlfriend back home. I was taken aback but didn’t let it dampen my mood or our connection in the moment. We agreed to keep it casual, no strings attached, just enjoying each other’s company and physical chemistry whenever we saw each other. I felt sexy, confident, and desired; all feelings I had suppressed for years while being in a committed relationship. The next day, I woke up alone, and that's how it’s been going ever since. We see each other occasionally, and every time is amazing, no regrets about the way things are set up. But lately, people around me have started to question my motives and actions, calling them selfish or immature. I couldn’t care less what others think though; I'm having a great time being single again and not worrying about labels or expectations. This guy and I agreed from day one that this is purely for our enjoyment, no drama involved. Plus, the sex is mind-blowing; it’s the best I’ve ever had in my life. So yeah, while some may judge me for hooking up with a man who's already taken back home, I feel like I'm just living fully and not holding myself back from what feels right to me. And trust me, if you’re questioning whether I’m doing the wrong thing, then maybe you should ask yourself why you're feeling so uncomfortable about my choices.