...Exploring My Freedom...

Since my recent divorce, I've been exploring different aspects of my sexuality that were never really an option in the past. Last night, for instance, I decided to try out a fetish club downtown. It was exhilarating but also strange, the thrill came from breaking the norms we set up during my marriage... The kink bar offered me so much more freedom than I ever felt with just one partner... but it made me wonder if there's something deeper about commitment versus variety that I need to figure out for myself... What do you think? Have any of you experienced similar shifts in your sexual desires after a major life change?