confession from a nurse dating casually

so i was like at this bar with some friends and we were just talking about all sorts of stuff. one guy asked me out on a date, no big deal right? then another one asks if he can take me home too. so now i have two dudes asking me out. i was kinda thinking maybe i should go for it and see who i like better, but also i dont want to hurt anyone's feelings by saying no. what do u guys think? i mean, both are nice guys but in different ways. one is more adventurous and likes trying new things, the other is super sweet and attentive. anyways, so last weekend i went out with the adventurous guy and we had a really fun time! he introduced me to this place that does couples massage as part of their date night thing? yeah weird but cool right? going there was surprisingly great. it’s one of those places where both partners get a massage and then like, cuddle or sleep together in these cozy little rooms. i think we might have been the only ones who decided to actually do that whole after-massage part. anyway, things got kinda heated afterwards, but we didn’t go all the way because he’s pretty chill about that sort of thing and respects my boundaries. still, it felt like a really intimate moment between us. i’m not sure if this means anything more or if it was just a fun night out. now im wondering what to do next with him versus the other guy who’s been super patient waiting for me to make up my mind. and yes, this is all still casual stuff until i decide how serious i wanna get. guess u could say its kinda complicated but hey, adulting can be fun sometimes :)