feeling lost and confused

so i recently got divorced after being married for almost a decade. thought we were both really happy but turns out my ex had been cheating on me for years. found out like 6 months ago, went to counseling tried everything but nope. anyway, now im in this kinda weird place. met this girl at the gym, shes a divorcee too but has kids so its complicated. weve been seeing each other casually but last night... i dont know what got into me. took it further than we should have. she was totally okay with it though and now we're talking about maybe getting more serious. feel bad for both of us because were both starting fresh after being hurt so badly, but cant help the attraction. its like im trying to find my way in this new world and shes one of the lights guiding me. dont know if its a good thing or just another way to get burned.