the ex's secret

i just found out last week my ex-wife had this whole other life while married to me.... met a guy at work, they'd been seeing each other for two years on the side. she told me after we both filed but couldn't take it anymore i guess... shocked me pretty good. she's got all her stuff moved out now and i'm staying at a hotel until my divorce goes through. just weird to think about being married to someone who was cheating all that time....