I Told My Partner I Wanted Her to Bottom More Often

I recently came clean with my girlfriend that I have this really hot fantasy about her letting me take control in the bedroom more often. She's been hesitant, but I explained that it doesn't change how I feel about our relationship, it just means there are some things we need to explore together. We're both 27 and we've got a solid connection, so I felt like this was the right time to talk it out and see where it goes.