Just Got Married...

So I got married last week to my long-time partner, and we did the whole thing on our wedding night. It was just me, him, a bed, and plenty of lube... He's forty now, so he can't get it up as easily anymore without a bit of help from some toys. We used everything in my toy box, but nothing felt as good as his cock inside me... Anyone ever have trouble getting started on their wedding night? Is this normal?