My Wedding Night Surprise

I was engaged to Sarah for about two years before we got married last month. We had a good relationship, but like any couple, we have our differences. One of them was that I always felt like sex could be intense and rough sometimes. But every time I suggested it with her, she’d say no or brush me off, saying it wasn’t for her. I never pushed it past that because we were happy and content in other ways. Then the wedding night came around. We had a beautiful ceremony with family and friends. After all the celebrations, Sarah was exhausted but also nervous about consummating our marriage. I tried to reassure her, but she seemed distant and unsure. That night, before we went to bed, she took me aside and said there was something important to talk about first. She looked nervous, almost scared. 'I want you to know that I love you,' she started, 'but tonight, I need us to do something different.' Then she told me about this roleplay she’d been wanting to try for a while but never brought up before now. She wanted to be dominated and tied up. At first, the idea shocked me. It was so unlike anything we had ever talked about or done together. But I also couldn’t help feeling intrigued by her willingness to open up this side of herself. We spent hours discussing the details and setting boundaries, ensuring everything would feel safe for both of us. She mentioned that she felt like it could be a one-time thing, but she wanted me to know what turned her on. The night itself was intense. She wore blindfolds while I tied her wrists with silk scarves, not too tight or uncomfortable, just enough for the scene. We whispered to each other and played out fantasies that had been building up in both of us over the years without either of us fully knowing it. The way she surrendered control to me was incredibly arousing. I confessed this confession not because I feel ashamed exactly but because I’m still processing it. Was it wrong for me to push something Sarah clearly wanted, even though we hadn’t talked about it before? Should I have known that this was the kind of thing she’d want and tried bringing it up earlier? What does this say about our relationship dynamics and communication? In the end, both of us agreed that night made everything more intimate and opened new doors. But I can’t shake off the lingering questions.