found an old flogger

divorced last month after 20 yrs. wasnt sure if i could ever get into bdsm stuff before but one night found this old flogger under a bed and just had to try it out. played around with it on my own for a while, experimented a bit then called up an ex friend who's been single since the split too. things got pretty intense real quick once we started playing but kept checking in & making sure each other was ok with it. felt kinda naughty but also surprisingly good to give and receive pain like that. no big deal really but thought id share.