i might be the asshole here

so like i was at this party last week and it was my friend robin's house. she knows i'm trans and stuff but we've never really talked about me being with guys or anything. i just sorta assumed that was between us and no big deal. anyway, there's this guy there, chris, he's straight up hot and everyone knows i have a thing for him. so i was hitting on him all night but in like subtle ways cause i don't want to seem desperate or whatever. so we were talking and stuff, and then at some point i kind of hinted that i might not be into women the way he is just to see how he would react. turns out he didn't take it well at all. he got kinda defensive and was like “i’m not gonna lie, i don’t date guys” which wasn’t what i wanted him to say but also kinda expected. anyway, after that we didn’t talk much and when i left the party i felt really bad. did i overstep? i mean it’s my business if anyone asks but i didn’t ask first. now robin is pissed at me for being such a douchebag. still trying to figure out how to apologize or even why this happened in the first place.