It's All In Good Fun, Right?

So last night my wife and I decided to spice things up with some handcuffs. She insisted on being the one in chains this time. It was supposed to be a playful fantasy about her being caught by me for breaking some made-up rule. But as we got into it, she started getting way more aggressive than usual, yelling at me like an angry cop, pushing me around. I mean, she wasn’t hurting me or anything, but let’s just say it felt a bit too real and intense for my comfort level. We laughed about it afterward, but man, did she ever teach me a lesson about boundaries.