She Loves Me Like This

I’m a trans man and I’ve been with my girlfriend for two years. We’re both happy and it’s generally a great relationship. But there’s this one thing that happened recently, something that made me feel really exposed and vulnerable. She came to me saying she had a fantasy about tying me up and spanking me hard. At first, the idea felt wrong on so many levels, I hate feeling like less of a man or someone who can’t take care of myself. But as she explained how it was all part of a roleplay where I’m vulnerable but strong, I saw her passion for this dynamic. We tried it out and to my surprise, I found myself getting into the submissive side of me. It wasn’t easy, but there’s something about feeling completely trusted in our intimacy that made everything okay.