... The Unexpected Twist ...

So I’ve been dating this girl for a couple months now. We met through friends at a bar one night and hit it off right away. Pretty casual, no labels or anything, just enjoying each other’s company, taking things slow. We went to her place the other day, just talking on the couch, drinking wine. I had a bit too much, so she took me into her room for the night. Nothing happened that first time though, just cuddling and sleepovers kind of stuff, definitely comfortable with each other but not rushing anything. A few days later we were hanging out at my place when things started to get more intense... kissing on the couch, touching hands under sweaters... We moved into her bedroom. I was trying hard to be respectful though, keeping it innocent and slow despite how much I wanted to take it further. But then she went for it... she undid my pants, put me in bed and straddled me over my boxers, grinding down on my erection... It felt so sudden but also just right somehow. I was trying to be mindful of her comfort level, asking if this was okay, letting her set the pace. She seemed excited though... We ended up fucking pretty hard that night. I wanted it slow and romantic initially, but she flipped things on me, I liked being submissive for once... let her take control, call out my names in bed. It felt a bit unexpected but also really hot. Not sure how to read into this. She’s not one to just sleep around casually or anything so I don’t think it was purely about the sex... but definitely opened up something new between us for both of us too. Just curious if others have had similar experiences where things get more intense and sexual unexpectedly? ...