... It's Complicated ...

I got divorced last month after six years of marriage. We tried everything - counseling, separate living arrangements, but in the end, it just wasn't working out. My ex-wife is a good person, and I care about her deeply...but not romantically anymore. Since then, I've found myself exploring my sexuality again for the first time in a long while...experimenting with fetishes and kinks that I didn't even know I had until now. Masturbation has become more intense and frequent...and it's starting to feel like something is missing without someone else involved... Anybody out there been through this before? Am I doing okay, or should I be seeking professional help?