my first time giving control away

hey guys, so i’m like this nurse in my 30s, been with someone for a while but we’re open and stuff. recently tried this bondage thing at home. she’s pretty into it too but this was her first real time doing it where she let me tie her up properly. had these nice soft leather cuffs that didn’t hurt or anything just felt kind of naughty to use on her. i mean, i did have her tied in the bed and everything. we laughed a lot about how new this was for both of us but i gotta say it turned out better than expected! when she said yes to try it, my heart went crazy. afterwards though, wondering if this is something normal people do or not? what do you think? anyone else ever tried being tied up in their relationship?